Is this a sign?

I asked, “Tell me how, show me how. It’s so difficult! It’s so hard to do…”

The very word that spoke to me was “undeserved”.

God’s love for us is undeserved. We did nothing to earn it; no good in us merited it. “God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Rom. 5:8). In all our relationships, especially with our children, we must genuinely show that same kind of love.

Who am I to say or pick on whom I choose to love?
I didn’t deserve it, so who am I to judge and say he doesn’t deserve my love and respect?

But it’s so hard, God…show me how, tell me how.
How am I to look past the hurt that he has inflicted on loved ones?