SK followed me back to Seremban today and we actually spent the 3 hours talking (almost) non-stop in the car. It’s good to have company while driving! Makes it less boring and sleep-inducing. She has to come back to Seremban to hang up her clothes. Apparently she has to do it and korkor cannot do it on her behalf.

I told mom quite plainly (probably a bit rude) that I’m glad that if I ever get married in the future, it’d be a Christian wedding and there would be no need of all these customs.

The problem (I think it is a problem) is that she (mom) went and ask about it. When you’ve asked and don’t do as you’re told, you’d wonder if it’ll affect the marriage/luck/timing/flow/etc…gives you more stress, no? That is why she has a lot to do and is stressed out preparing for the wedding. I can’t tell her that whatever she is doing is wrong and will get her no where – she choose to believe mah. We just do not want to see her being so stressed up and unhappy – because this is supposed to be a joyous occasion.